I’m a really big fan of D/s dynamics that are under-negotiated and that might cross into Bad Idea Kink. That is, kink that’s not well discussed and likely to bump into traumas and that might be consensual but unsafe. That goes well with my love of wholesome dubcon — yes, there was sex pollen but everybody had a great time and grew as a person.

When it comes to noncon, I tend to prefer subtle threats, aphrodisiacs/alcohol/drugs or sadistic “choices” rather than outright violence (at least at first). Situations where a person cannot revoke consent are also delicious, same as situations where the nonconned one enjoys it physically.

I deeply enjoy dom POVs and reluctanct doms/guilty sadists learning to accept they like being in control/hurting their sexual partners. Conversely, I like intense, seductive subs/bottoms/masochists who are 100% comfortable with their kinks.

I like painplay and impact play because of the heightened sensations — but also just on an aesthetic level, I like how it looks. I also love bondage, particularly honor and predicament bondage because of the element of control involved and again, the visuals of the very stiff, extreme posture.

I like tits. A lot. Come on tits, sucking on tits, tit torture, tits being tied up, tits escaping dresses, groping. Just… love it. I’m also really here for sloppy blowjobs, deepthroating, eager cunnilingus, rimming, and brutal facefuckings.

And last but not least: I love a good sex farce. Like, the type of story that doesn’t make sense but it’s hilarious and everybody’s fucking. In general, I’m really into funny sex because it shows how compatible and comfortable the characters are. Banter/laughter in bed, people failing at roleplay because they’re discussing worldbuilding or character motivation, and plain ol’ slapstick — I love it all.